Quotes from latter-day apostles and prophets:
“The ultimate end of all activity in the Church is to see a husband and
his wife and their children happy at home, protected by the principles
and laws of the gospel, sealed safely in the covenants of the
everlasting priesthood. Husbands and wives should understand that their
first calling—from which they will never be released—is to one another
and then to their children.”
President Boyd K. Packer, And A Little Child Shall Lead Them, April 2012 General Conference
“This divine privilege of raising our children is a much greater
responsibility than we can do alone, without the Lord’s help. He knows
exactly what our children need to know, what they need to do, and what
they need to be to come back into His presence. He gives mothers and
fathers specific instruction and guidance through the scriptures, His
prophets, and the Holy Ghost.
In a latter-day revelation
through the Prophet Joseph Smith, the Lord instructs parents to teach
their children to understand the doctrine of repentance, faith in
Christ, baptism, and the gift of the Holy Ghost. Notice the Lord doesn’t
just say we are to “teach the doctrine”; His instructions are to teach
our children to “understand the doctrine.” (See D&C 68:25, 28;
emphasis added.)”
Sister Cheryl A. Esplin, Teaching Our Children to Understand, April 2012 General Conference
“Our most important and powerful assignments are in the family. They
are important because the family has the opportunity at the start of a
child’s life to put feet firmly on the path home.”
President Henry B. Eyring, Help Them on Their Way Home, April 2010 General Conference
“Near
the end of his life, one father looked back on how he had spent his
time on earth. An acclaimed, respected author of numerous scholarly
works, he said, ‘I wish I had written one less book and taken my
children fishing more often.’ Time passes quickly. Many parents say that
it seems like yesterday that their children were born. Now those
children are grown, perhaps with children of their own. ‘Where did the
years go?’ they ask. We cannot call back time that is past, we cannot
stop time that now is, and we cannot experience the future in our
present state. Time is a gift, a treasure not to be put aside for the
future but to be used wisely in the present.”
President Thomas S. Monson, Dedication Day, October 2000 General Conference
“Our Heavenly Father wants husbands and wives to be faithful to each
other and to esteem and treat their children as an heritage from the
Lord. In such a family we study the scriptures and pray together. And we
fix our focus on the temple. There we receive the highest blessings
that God has in store for His faithful children.”
Elder Russell M. Nelson, Salvation and Exaltation, April 2008 General Conference
“One of the great discoveries of parenthood is that we learn far more
about what really matters from our children than we ever did from our
parents. We come to recognize the truth in Isaiah’s prophecy that ‘a
little child shall lead them.’”
President Boyd K. Packer, And A Little Child Shall Lead Them, April 2012 General Conference
“In Church callings we are subject to release. But we cannot be
released as parents. From the first days of human history, the Lord has
commanded parents to teach the gospel to their children. 15 Moses wrote,
‘Thou shalt teach … diligently … thy children, and shalt talk of [God’s
words] when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the
way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.’”
Elder Russell M. Nelson, Salvation and Exaltation, April 2008 General Conference
“The best counsel for us to give young people is that they can arrive
back to Heavenly Father only as they are guided and corrected by the
Spirit of God. So if we are wise, we will encourage, praise, and
exemplify everything which invites the companionship of the Holy Ghost.
When they share with us what they are doing and feeling, we must
ourselves have qualified for the Spirit. Then they will feel in our
praise and our smiles the approval of God. And should we feel the need
to give corrective counsel, they will feel our love and the love of God
in it, not rebuke and rejection, which can permit Satan to lead them
further away.
The example they most need from us is to do what
they must do. We need to pray for the gifts of the Spirit. We need to
ponder in the scriptures and in the words of living prophets. We need to
make plans which are not only wishes but covenants. And then we need to
keep our promises to the Lord. And we need to lift others by sharing
with them the blessings of the Atonement which have come in our lives.
And we need to exemplify in our own lives the steady and prolonged
faithfulness that the Lord expects of them. As we do, we will help them
feel from the Spirit an assurance that if they will persist, they will
hear the words from a loving Savior and Heavenly Father: ‘Well done,
thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few
things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy
of thy lord.’ And we who help them along the way will hear those words
with joy.”
President Henry B. Eyring, Help Them on Their Way Home, April 2010 General Conference
“Our parents served faithfully in their most important calling—as
parents. Our father led our home in righteousness, never with anger or
fear. And the powerful example of our father was magnified by the tender
counsel of our mother. The gospel is a powerful influence in the life
of every one of us in the Packer family and to the next generation and
the next generation and the next, as far as we have seen.”
President Boyd K. Packer, And A Little Child Shall Lead Them, April 2012 General Conference
“When a child needs correction, you might ask yourself, “What can I say
or do that would persuade him or her to choose a better way?” When
giving necessary correction, do it quietly, privately, lovingly, and not
publicly. If a rebuke is required, show an increase of love promptly so
that seeds of resentment may not remain. To be persuasive, your love
must be sincere and your teachings based on divine doctrine and correct
principles.
Do not try to control your children. Instead, listen to them, help
them to learn the gospel, inspire them, and lead them toward eternal
life. You are God’s agents in the care of children He has entrusted to
you. Let His divine influence remain in your hearts as you teach and
persuade.”
Elder Russell M. Nelson, Salvation and Exaltation, April 2008 General Conference
Sunday, May 20, 2012
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